How to deal with to families that dont get along?
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Keri O asked:
My husband and i got married and did not tell our parents it was a spur of the moment thing a month ago in Vegas. My parents cant stand him because he is 21 and italian not spanish from spain or costa rica like them like they wanted and his parents dont really like me because i am spanish they called me a tramp even though i lost it too there son! and they want him to date Italian girls.We told them we were engaged after the trip to Vegas.Can this problem be fixed before we tell them we are married? Both of our families value family above almost everything but cant seem to get along. I am also a freshmen in college and pregnant with my husband child.We may have to move in with either family seeing .
I dont think culturally we are so different and i wish my husband would stick up for me against his mother. I am sure both set of familys will now think we ruined our lives.
I am 18 years old and a freshmen in college my hubby is a junior.
Lydia
My husband and i got married and did not tell our parents it was a spur of the moment thing a month ago in Vegas. My parents cant stand him because he is 21 and italian not spanish from spain or costa rica like them like they wanted and his parents dont really like me because i am spanish they called me a tramp even though i lost it too there son! and they want him to date Italian girls.We told them we were engaged after the trip to Vegas.Can this problem be fixed before we tell them we are married? Both of our families value family above almost everything but cant seem to get along. I am also a freshmen in college and pregnant with my husband child.We may have to move in with either family seeing .
I dont think culturally we are so different and i wish my husband would stick up for me against his mother. I am sure both set of familys will now think we ruined our lives.
I am 18 years old and a freshmen in college my hubby is a junior.
Lydia